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Erectile Dysfunction (ED)

Why Am I Having Untimely Erections?



For past few days, I am noticing in the start of making love with my wife, my penis stays erect. After the orgasm, some where down the line, in the start of intercourse, I find my penis is not hard enough to penetrate. Also noticing that earlier during orgasm, usually some liquid comes out of penis which is not coming now. But in masturbation it is getting erected nicely. So my questions are:

1. is unnecessary tension during intercourse creating this?

2. what is the healthy rate of intercourse during a week? we sometime do daily and sometime on alternate day.

I am married for one and half years and this is the first time I am facing this problem. I am 30 years old. I am really worried and please reply me.


Sexual encounter on demand may fail to satisfy both partners. Strong desire followed by a longer foreplay, being a nice conversation, romantic dinner or any signal to prepare the partner and yourself will improve your love making ability. By your confession, you can masturbate but yet you may fail in close relation with your partner. Therefore, your sexual physiology is intact but psychological portion is lacking. It also signals lack of confidence and possibly, love making as a duty to give pleasure and not feeling the desire to fulfill the true act of love making. Intercourse should be the final act of the long love making.

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Response by:

Ahmad  Hamidinia, MD Ahmad Hamidinia, MD
Formerly, Professor of Clinical Surgery
College of Medicine
University of Cincinnati